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【Weekly Topic 2026.07.19】The Fly on the Wall |
lizhenxuan
中级魔法师 六级
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Floor 1
Posted at: 7/19/26 14:03
Imagine you could sit in a corner and quietly observe a scene without anyone noticing you—not because you are invisible, but because people are simply unaware. For one day, you can watch human interactions like a documentary viewer. You cannot interfere, you cannot be seen, you just observe. This week, we explore what we notice when we stop performing and start watching. |
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lizhenxuan
中级魔法师 六级
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Floor 2
Posted at: 7/19/26 14:04
Discussion Questions: 1.Where would you choose to observe for one day—a busy café, a family dinner, a classroom, a park, or somewhere else? Why that place? 2.What do you think you would notice that people normally miss? Body language, small lies, hidden kindness, or something else? 3.If you could observe one conversation you had last week from the outside, what might you learn about yourself? 4.Do you think people behave differently when they think no one is watching? Have you ever noticed this in real life? 5.If we all spent more time observing and less time judging, would the world become more understanding or more detached? 6.Imagine everyone had to spend one day as an observer once a year. How might that change the way we treat each other? 7.Interactive Element: Find someone who chose a different observation spot than you. Ask them what they hope to learn from that place. |
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lizhenxuan
中级魔法师 六级
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Floor 3
Posted at: 7/19/26 14:33
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Azi
初级魔法师 四级
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Floor 4
Posted at: 7/21/26 22:17
1.Where would you choose to observe for one day—a busy café, a family dinner, a classroom, a park, or somewhere else? Why that place?
My parents' shop would be the place I choose. My parents sell lights and switchs. I want to learn how to deal with customers, but it's embarassed for me to just follow them, saying nothing. |
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Azi
初级魔法师 四级
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Floor 5
Posted at: 7/21/26 22:50
2.What do you think you would notice that people normally miss? Body language, small lies, hidden kindness, or something else?
Mostly their body language. And their focus when they are talking. |
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Azi
初级魔法师 四级
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Floor 6
Posted at: 7/21/26 22:58
3.If you could observe one conversation you had last week from the outside, what might you learn about yourself?
Well, I can make it in the real life through "retaping" my conversations in my mind a moment after the conversation, and always end up finding I'd said something wrong. An absolute outside conversation would serve as a double check. |
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Azi
初级魔法师 四级
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Floor 7
Posted at: 7/21/26 23:02
4.Do you think people behave differently when they think no one is watching? Have you ever noticed this in real life?
Sey myself as an example. I would stream videos when having breakfast if I was home alone, but I'll never do it if others were present, whether it was prihibitted or not. |
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Azi
初级魔法师 四级
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Floor 8
Posted at: 7/22/26 10:01
5.If we all spent more time observing and less time judging, would the world become more understanding or more detached?
More observing would make it easier to notice others' unintentional mistakes, which might lead to quarrels and misunderstanding. However, in a long term, we'd come to realize all of us make mistakes, and even harbor hidden intentions, so that the world would ultimately become more inclusive. |
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Azi
初级魔法师 四级
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Floor 9
Posted at: 7/22/26 10:02
6.Imagine everyone had to spend one day as an observer once a year. How might that change the way we treat each other?
As I said above. |
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啊啊是谁都对
总编 二十四级
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Floor 10
Posted at: 7/25/26 18:11
4.Do you think people behave differently when they think no one is watching? Have you ever noticed this in real life?
Yes. I've seen it for many times. |
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啊啊是谁都对
总编 二十四级
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Floor 11
Posted at: 7/25/26 18:14
5.If we all spent more time observing and less time judging, would the world become more understanding or more detached?
I think it would be more detached. The intimacy asks for similarity, and the similarity asks for the same (or the similar) standard. With less judging, a standard would be less effective. |
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圆环之理
上位魔导师 二十一级
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Floor 12
Posted at: 7/28/26 9:48
1.Where would you choose to observe for one day—a busy café, a family dinner, a classroom, a park, or somewhere else? Why that place?
I think I would choose a hospital because I would like to observe how people deal with life and death 
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圆环之理
上位魔导师 二十一级
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Floor 13
Posted at: 7/28/26 10:04
2.What do you think you would notice that people normally miss? Body language, small lies, hidden kindness, or something else?
I think I would notice an elder try to dissuade his children from spending much money in the treatment because this disease is cureless. But his children persist in the treatment because they want to give themselves peace of mind 
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